Female fantasies have always been a touchy subject, and for most of the part, most men don’t really understand what women want unless of course, you are Mel Gibson. While female fantasies vary from getting married to a wealthy Saudi prince to getting dominated, it’s the bedroom fantasies that are most surprising. While the typical guy thinks that a woman’s biggest fantasy involves dumping a truck full of roses and playing romantic hits from the 80’s, a woman’s fantasies are more complicated than that. It’s hard for most women to state their fantasies, but it does not mean they don’t have them. Women are normally comfortable about disclosing these fantasies to their girlfriends rather than telling them directly to their boyfriends.

According to a study that was conducted by Journal of Sexual Medicine, men, and women, often share the same sexual fantasies. This particular research involved 1,516 participants both male and female between the age of 20-40 and what they fantasize about. The research concluded that top ten fantasies between women and men were totally different, however, each gender’s top list had 5 fantasies in common.

Well, I bet you are eager to find out what these fantasies are, but before we proceed, you need to understand that while women reported most of the fantasies in this list, not all of them wanted them to come true. Sometimes fantasies are just fantasies, don’t take them too seriously. Here are 15 of Women’s most Surprising Fantasies.

15. Stripper Fantasy

Well, you have probably heard of this one, or seen it a billion times in the club. In case you haven’t, just get a girl a few shots of Vodka and the club will have a free show. But come to think of it, all women want to be admired, and there’s no woman who gets that kind of attention than a stripper. While it might not be the most moral of jobs, it’s definitely something that most women fantasize about. They will especially love it when you dangle a few notes at her. Word of caution, trying this too early in your relationship could leave you single. Women hate to be objectified, so take caution!

14. Reversed Role Fantasy

Most women really wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s shoe, hence why we have same sex relationships (okay that’s a really bad joke). But precisely put, women, wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s boxers. They fantasize about putting on his long trench coat with nothing inside and take the man in front or back. Remember, in this fantasy, the man, plays the girl and might not really enjoy it, unless of course, he is quite adventurous in the bedroom and is willing to try out his woman’s fantasy. In case you have been through this ordeal, we are glad you came out alive!

13. Swinging With Other Couples

Well, this is big among both men and women. We have all heard about the phenomenon of swinger parties where couples drop their car keys in a fish bowl and hope for the best as the night swings on. The idea of watching your significant other with a stranger right in front of you is a turn on for a lot of women. Men also love to dream about a threesome with good looking women involved. Shockingly, women love to dream of the same thing, and of course, they would also prefer to have handsome men in their racy fantasies. Perhaps they just want you and probably your best friend in bed. Tough decision to make for most men, but love hurts LOL!

12. Lesbian Fantasy

All men get shocked when they learn this. But at one point in a woman’s life, she has secretly or publicly fantasized about getting down and dirty with someone like Rihanna or Angelina Jolie (I know you have too). Women have fantasized about how it would feel to be intimate with someone of the same sex, someone who will know just how she wants to be treated or touched and what will make it interesting in the bedroom. In case you have never thought about getting down with Angelina Jolie, she’s stated that the woman’s body is the most attractive thing in the whole world.

11. The Exhibitionism Fantasy

A lot of fantasies that women have often include showing off a lot. They fantasize of walking down the beach and by the time their feet hit the water, they are completely naked. If you had good college days then you probably saw a lot of girls flashing their parts in a festival and if you were lucky enough while cruising on the highway as well. The closest thing any girl would do to get familiar with this kind of a female fantasy is flashing to unsuspecting people walking down the road. This fantasy can be a great boost to sizzling bedroom action if you know what I mean.

10. Submissive mate Fantasy

Women love the idea of being submissive once in a while. Traditionally, men are usually the ones on top, however, at times women love to be on top and fantasize about their man doing more than just showing off his maneuvering acts on top of her. They love to be told what to do in bed and often wonder how it would be to be called different dirty names in bed as well. While this might seem more like a man’s fantasy, what she does during this act is her fantasy. Some women love this fantasy because they will obey everything that they are told, while others want to disobey so that they could get punished.

9. Dominatrix Fantasy

This is actually the reversed role of the submissive lover fantasy. A lot of women have the fantasy of dominating men, instead of getting dominated every time. They get off the fact that they could indulge in all sorts of crazy stuff with men. Most of the time this includes tying up a man and doing whatever she wishes to him. This might include commanding her man to perform certain sexual acts while also making him beg for what he wants. Well, there much more to this fantasy, and believe me when I tell you that some of the acts are way too crude to explain here. The least act involves some peening Ewwww!

8. Stranger in the Room Fantasy

If you know women well, then you know they will cringe in case an unknown person touches them, funny bit, is that some of them will love it inside their head. Women fantasize about meeting a man for a one-night stand affair. She will be able to do anything and everything that she has always wanted. The thing that thrills most women with this is that they can do whatever they want without feeling guilty the next day. Well, meeting a new guy for a nightstand, in her head takes away a lot of inhibitions. Plus she gets to talk dirty and not feel embarrassed about it.

7. Fantasy With Multiple People Involved

Well, this is a fantasy that’s crossed all of our minds, but for the sake of those who want to redeem their sanity, we will let it pass as ‘most people’. The fantasy of being touched by several men at the same time is a dream most women share but would rather die than admit it. Different women have different numbers of men they would like to get involved with, from two to ten! Overwhelming attention turns women on, and while women don’t dream about it every day, they hope it happens someday. Ever had this thought? All you need to do is sit down and explore your mind.

6. Sleeping with a Celebrity

While this might hurt the conservative guy, women fantasize about sleeping with a celebrity (sorry to break your heart folks). According to research, about 52% of women have thought and fantasized about sleeping with a well-known celebrity. Apparently, the bare thought of sleeping with a famous person distinguishes her from other women, it’s almost as if a bit of the fame stays with them after the encounter. It’s due to fantasies like these that rock bands are blessed with millions of groupies. However, the fantasies never include marrying or falling in love with a celebrity, but then again if it happens, they wouldn’t be able to help it.

5. Bondage Fantasy

This scares the guts out of most men, and especially if you are unsure if toys will be used after you get handcuffed to the bed. Well, more than 52% of women fantasize about being tied up by someone to experience a new level of sexual thrill. This fantasy is actually where the BDSM comes into play. So what is it about giving up dominance that turns women on? According to science, women are wired to be turned on by sexual submission, explaining the fact why they are attracted to dominant males. This is perhaps one of the oldest fantasies that still haunt us today.

4. Public Indecency Fantasy

There’s something about being caught having sex in public, explains the fact why affairs are so thrilling and nerve stimulating. A lot of women agree that there is a lot of pleasure doing the nasty in public. According to a research, almost 55% of women have a secret thirst of seeking this kind of sensation, whether they act on it or not. Making love in the open can be daring, thrilling and exhilarating at the same time. While a lot of women are scared of getting caught in the act, a good number of them can’t help thinking about it in the safety of their sheets.

3. Scandalous Affair Fantasy

This might be heartbreaking, but there is a good chance your girlfriend has thought about another man while in bed with you. There I said it! This action is verified by a study that revealed about 66% of women fantasize about being with a man who is known to them but not their spouse. From the mail man to your rich neighbour’s Hispanic gardener, but still, one thing stands, it’s not your husband or boyfriend. However, affairs are tricky, a reason why women wouldn’t necessarily want their fantasies to come true. There’s a show that’s dedicated to the concept of affairs, called The Affair. You can look it up.

2. Pressing the Spouses Right Button Fantasy

Ever known what’s more pleasurable to a guy than sex itself? It’s the ability to please his partner. Well, women get off this act too! At least 68% of women have admitted to fantasizing about pleasuring their spouses. While it can feel like an accomplishment to find out that you have such a desire, it offers the woman a sense of power and control to realize that they have the ability arouse a man. While women love to give control to men in bed, they also like to take it back sometimes, and especially when they have been eyeing a certain piece of jewelry at your local jeweller.

1. Rape Fantasy

No man ever understands this, because, rape is one of the most traumatizing events that can ever happen to any woman, but like explained earlier, sometimes fantasies are just fantasies. While this might be a disturbing fantasy, women have confessed that they dream of being molested by a man or being hijacked and nailed on a haystack (not literally though, don’t get too excited). But still, women have fantasized about getting their clothes ripped off and being ravaged by a man. The key thing to remember is that women are in control when they fantasize about rape – it’s a controlled environment inside their mind, which is why they feel the freedom to reenact such scenarios. For all the men out there, don’t ever try this, unless you fancy having your ding-dong chopped off or getting molested at a correctional facility.

Sources: uk.businessinsider.com, cosmopolitan.com