15 Things She Wants To “Try” Before You Lock Her Down
Yes she loves you, I’m not here to dispute that. I am here however to tell you that although you have her locked down now she most likely regrets it. It has nothing to do with you but it’s more so that she did not get the opportunity to experience more in life. Now she may actually be very happy with you anyways but she still thinks about what she could have and should have done before you came along. No need to go running to her to find out what exactly she wants to go do. I’ve got you covered right here! Here are 15 things she wants to try before you lock her down.
15. Threesome
Sometimes a woman wants to go all out and what better way to do that than by having a threesome! The combination doesn’t matter. Whether it’s two men, two women or one of each she just wants to have that experience. It’s an interesting dynamic because for a certain type of woman it can be hard to allow yourself to have two lovers at the same time. The thought of it happening can gross a woman out but it can also have her intrigued and hormones racing! I’m sure your girlfriend enjoys hot bedroom action so imagine how she would feel if she had two people instead of one? Just the thought of it gives her chills!
14. One Night Stand
Just for one night only your girlfriend wants to have great, amazing, mind blowing hanky panky with a complete stranger! It might be a guy she sees at the bar or a random stranger she sees while she’s on vacation either way she could be having these thoughts. Now guys she doesn’t want to actually leave you. She absolutely does not want a relationship with the guy and she doesn’t want to have sex with him everyday either she just simply wants one night with him. Many women tie their emotions to physical intimacy and that’s why many of them have a hard time just simply “doing it” with a random stranger just one time but they do fantasize about it. Now don’t feel bad fellas it’s just one night!
13. Sleeping With Your Friend
Be careful who you show your girlfriend off to. Although she wants to meet everyone in your life it might be best to avoid certain people. We all have that one friend that gets every girl. The automatic chick magnet. Your girlfriend won’t tell you that he’s attractive but she will be secretly fantasizing about him. She’ll even be hoping that you trust her enough to leave her alone with him so that she can make her next move, but luckily for you she won’t take that next step but you can sure believe when she’s with you that she’s really thinking about him!
12. Being With Another Girl
This one is called the experimental phase. It’s when a woman is kind of figuring herself out on a sexual level. She might have been dating men her whole life but she may want to try something new. Most if not all women have no problem acknowledging when another woman is attractive. They sometimes even feel as though another woman would be more in tuned with their body and therefore making a sexual experience with another woman more enjoyable. She might be right honestly. Although the theme of this article is telling women that they should do these things before they are locked down, for this particular example we wouldn’t mind if you had fun with another woman just as long as we can watch!
11. Being Recorded
She just wants to experience being an adult star once! She wants you to grab her by the hair, play with her body and just pleasure her endlessly. By the way she wants you to record everything as well! When a woman has physical relations she often times has no idea what is actually going on. Sounds a bit confusing so allow me to explain. She doesn’t know the facial expressions she is making, and she can’t see how she looks from behind either. She is so caught up in the moment that nothing else matters but this time around she wants to be recorded so she can see everything for herself. It’s not one of her proudest moments but it is something she would like to do before you lock her down.
10. Doing The Nasty In Public
Physical intimacy traditionally speaking is supposed to happen on a bed in the privacy of your home. Anywhere else is unladylike and inappropriate and that is exactly why she wants to do it before you lock her down. Listen having “fun” in public is dangerous, disgusting and crazy. That is exactly why it is so much fun! It’s a rush of adrenaline like no other! The fear of getting caught gives you an incredible climax. Public bathrooms, classrooms and parks. You name it and that’s the place she wants to go. After she is locked down she understands that that side of her must be gone forever and that is why she wants to do it before it’s too late. So, clear out the back seat of your car and pull up to a dark spot. It’s time to get busy!
9. Friends With Benefits
Most men don’t mind when their significant other has male friends. Notice I said most men! Although the ultimate goal for most women is to have a long lasting marriage with the man of their dreams, it does not mean she wants that right at this moment. Relationships can be stressful and instead of engaging in that level of stress a woman would rather be alone. However just because she wants to be alone it does not mean she does not have needs as well. That’s where friends with benefits comes into play. Ladies have that one male friend that they have known for quite sometime. They don’t want a relationship with him but they just want to have some naughty fun with him while still continuing to be friends. Clearly she can’t do that if she’s already locked down and that’s why she wants to try it before it’s too late.
8. Focusing On Herself
This doesn’t just come down to her focusing on her career and school work but more so just her as a person. Sometimes she can get wrapped up in everything. Pursuing her career goals, trying to finish school, finding out what her husband likes and attending to her children. What about her? Sometimes she can be sitting there asking herself what do I like to do? What are some of my hobbies? It sounds like an easy question but it can actually become a bit more complex when you actually don’t know the answer and you have no idea who you are. It can sometimes lead to a breakdown mentally because she feels as though everything is overwhelming her and she is losing her sense of self. Don’t let that happen to your ladies fellas. Let her figure out her own life and then you can lock her down.
7. Go On A Blind Date
What can be more adventurous than going out on a date with a person you have never spoken to or even seen before? It does sound a bit crazy but it can be a lot of fun and that’s the point. Sometimes a woman can be tired of the same old song and dance. Meaning she does not want anything traditional. It may work out and it may not but she at least wants to give it a try. She maybe tired of dealing with the same idiots that are only searching for one thing!
6. Sleep With A Married Man
Admit it ladies you love it when a man is committed to his wife! You secretly want that man in your life but since he won’t leave his wife for you then you simply will take him in the bedroom! It’s true when a man is looking for a woman he can hardly find one but when he finally gets off the market all of the women are hunting him down. As a man it can be extremely difficult to focus on just your wife when several women are seducing you. As hard as we may try eventually we lose sight of the right thing and fall down the wrong path. A good, caring, loving man that is devoted solely to his wife is a turn on for a woman and why should it not be? She has been looking for that type of man her whole life. It won’t stop her just because you’re married. It’ll just make her chase you more!
5. Be A Gold digger
It may not be in her nature to just take take take but for at least one time in her life that is exactly what she would like to do! Women that are gold diggers aren’t truly in love with their partner but more so see them as a way to get exactly what they want. If you have a woman that genuinely loves you for you and not your bank account than congratulations my friend you have found yourself one heck of a woman. Now although she may not be using you for your money it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want to try it on someone else before you have her completely locked down.
4. Have A Career
Being established and well off are important to not just women but everyone. Often times people rush into relationships, have kids and get married without focusing on what they want in their personal life. Their own goals in life gets placed on the back burner and often forgotten. It’s really not a bad trade off. A husband and kids is a great life to have but what about your own career goals? I’m sure she would love to be established in the field that she grew up loving. Having her career set up in the right direction before you lock her down is absolutely something she wants to do.
3. Be Selfish
When we’re younger our life is somewhat revolved around our parents, when we get a bit older it is than revolved around our school work and jobs. Somewhere along the way she meets you and you become something else she revolves her life around. When does she get the chance to just do what she wants to do? Often times she doesn’t. Now when she gets locked down than she absolutely cannot be selfish. She has to worry about you and possibly the kids. Before this happens she just wants to be selfish. She wants to do whatever she wants to do without seeking the approval of her spouse. It’s not that she’s a selfish person but she just wants to live selfishly for a short period of time.
2. Date Around
I’m sure guys are looking at this one and saying to themselves “Me and my lady were meant to be together so even if we met earlier there’s no way she would want to date other guys.” Think again! I’m sure she loves you but I’m also sure she would like to see what it would have been like to date other guys and meet other people. A woman always wonders if the grass would have been greener on the other side. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to be with you or wouldn’t have chosen you, it just simply means she would have liked to experience a few other dates with other people. Once you’ve got her locked down it’s far too late for that!
1. Travel The World
You can always travel the world with your partner. It can be a ton of fun. The only issue with that is the other responsibilities that come with being in a serious relationship. Single people can do whatever they want to do without worrying about others. If you’re single and you randomly decide that you want to get up and go to Greece today then as long as you have the money you can go right ahead. When you’re actually with someone things can get a bit more complicated. It seems a bit wrong to just randomly leave your partner on a whim just because you want to and if you guys have children together then things become even more complicated. Having a partner that you are serious with or even a husband along with kids are great but understand you can’t just simply do things by yourself so freely. You have to take them into consideration as well. The world is a big place and she more than likely would like to go see it before you tie her down.