“We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it’s a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift.” said Marilyn Monroe, who was the emblem of femininity in her era. The desire for physical intimacy is not a novel concept. It has been in existence since the advent of man and woman. Adam and Eve were the first couple to have experienced lovemaking first hand. And since the time, they never looked back. Adam and Eve were more like boyfriend and girlfriend rather than husband and wife. So we can say that Adam’s girlfriend always accepted his request for physical pleasure, the population is a living example of this fact. But does your girlfriend accept them too without a thought?

The image of Adam and Eve together is laughable, but at least they did it. And most importantly, Adam didn’t have to do too much to coerce Eve. In today’s world, where Adam’s sons are so many and so are Eve’s daughters, the sons have to work their asses off in order to convince a girl to get laid. There is stiff competition out there mate, you need to stay ahead of the others if you want to get laid. Watch her, listen to her and then follow the 15 ways given here. You’ll be wonderfully rewarded with a beautiful lady in your bed. You’ll be the lucky man to unravel her seductive mysteries hidden deep within. Thank us after you’ve solved those mysteries!

15. Be the hot guy with abs

There are some scientifically proven facts about the art of seduction. It’s believed that women are attracted to immaculate masculine features like beards, strong arms, perfect v-body and so on. Women also like tall men. So, if you’re short, don’t lose hope. Although it’s impossible to change your height, you can change other features. For example, by hitting the gym punctually you can have 6 pack abs, what better way can you think of? Most importantly, you must reduce your body weight, no woman likes to be with a man who is not bothered about fitness and is nothing but a bag of dead weight. It’s time you have a flat tummy and those cool looks. Time for a makeover!

14. Become the King of romance

“Romance is the glamour which turns the dust of everyday life into a golden haze,” said popular American author Carolyn Gold Heilbrun. How to be romantic? Well, you don’t have to watch too many Bradley Cooper movies or read Shakespeare for months to be romantic. And yeah, you can’t become romantic overnight. Romance is an art, you must learn the basics at least, if not master it. Whenever you greet your crush, have some lovely words for her. Rather than greeting her with a mundane “Hello”, say “Good morning, angel”. Start giving her that much-needed comfort and sound advice so that she comes to you for help more often and always have a beautiful word or two for her there.

13. Be More Touchy-Feely With Her

“The real lover is the man who can thrill you just by touching your head or smiling into your eyes – or just by staring into space,” said Marilyn Monroe. A man’s touch can make magic, it can change his girl’s mood. Touch her hands and press her palm in a very gentle way while speaking to her. While watching a movie, this trick works wonders. Reduce the physical gap between the both of you. If you have your arms around her shoulders while she is with you, make sure that you read her facial expressions, is she enjoying it? If she is longing for physical intimacy, it may be a green signal for you.

12. Make Her Want You In The Bedroom

Okay, your wife or girlfriend is ignoring your pleas for lovemaking in spite of your incessant requests. Sometimes, women portray a very bad attitude or become arrogant when they come to know that their man is badly in need of “it”. You will have “fun” only when it’s initiated by her. Play a trick! Start ignoring her and stop asking for it, which in turn will create a fear in her mind. Either she will start thinking that you are completely disappointed or you have fallen for another woman just to fulfill your sexual needs. Beware, she’ll get alert to it. She may show a keen interest in having you in bed and undoubtedly, your ‘freaky time’ is going to be one of the best ones.

11. Enchant and seduce her

No matter how hard you try, if your girl has zero interest in lovemaking, she will never respond to your feelings. In such a case, you must create a desire in her heart, have her under your spell! She may be in love with you, but in her mind “doing it” is not a necessary aspect of a love life and neither is she aware of the advantages of physical intimacy. It’s scientifically proven that making love relieves stress and also lowers body pressure. Such a useful physical activity! Even if you don’t want to go into that technical stuff, make her fantasize about having your body on hers and moving in perfect synchronization. Oh, she’ll come running to you.

10. Compliment Her Sincerely

A couple of decades ago, the word “sexy” was an awkward term for most women. But today the mindset is totally different, being sexy in someone’s eye is like the biggest reward. Some women don’t show any sign of happiness when someone calls them that, but secretly, they’re on cloud nine! Have you ever called your crush “sexy”? Tell her how attractive she is and you will feel the difference in her behaviour. A survey conducted by Dove Cosmetics states that 96% of women do not feel that they are beautiful. This shocking fact clearly conveys the heights of inferiority women have about their own looks. Your girl might be avoiding physical intimacy because she too thinks that her partner will not find her beautiful or attractive. When she realizes that you find her seductive, her inferiority complex will go away and she will become more available. 

9. Abstain from the Friend Zone

Of course, women do not feel comfortable being with a man who is a good friend in her eyes. Usually, women avoid picking a partner from their friend circle since they don’t want mutual friends to know anything about their personal life, especially if that person is loud mouthed. So, if you wish to get laid, try to stay away from her friend circle and, to remain special to her. Be such that you become a boyfriend and not a boy-friend. Be cool and don’t seem desperate. She’d like a confident man, not a whimpering boy.

8. Create Special Moments

Have you ever spent some alone time with her? If no, that’s the biggest mistake you have ever committed. Dear friend, how can you look for romance when you never spend any private time with her? One can never expect a woman to become physical on the very first date! It will take time and you must be patient. In the initial days, you must establish a strong rapport and make her comfortable. Ask and talk about the topics that interest her and it’ll make her feel like you’re compatible with her. As time goes on, she will start to enjoy your company. Eventually, she’ll get attracted to you and your manhood. Give it some time buddy!

7. Movie Date Night

This idea may sound boring to you, but it will work wonders. Just imagine, the both of you watching a romantic movie, which will include steamy scenes involving longing kisses.nIt’s basic human psychology that when your mind is exposed to a particular content, the content begins to impact your mood. So if you feel that you need her badly while watching a movie together, she will be feeling that same warm feeling as well! When your arms are touching her, it will create a sexual tension. If she is already your girlfriend, you can graze your arm against her. Your body movements will stimulate her mind. 

6. Be the ultimate opportunist

You fantasize about being with her badly, but it will never become a reality unless you make an effort. To stimulate her thoughts, you must be able to create such situations. For instance, go on a long drive or on a beach holiday. Can’t you imagine yourself playing with her on the seashore? What can be more thrilling? Invite her to your place for a party, you can ask her hand for a couple dances too. A couple can come so close to each other while dancing that they can feel what the other person feels in their eyes. Don’t be surprised if you find the desire to take her right there. That’s the right time to whisper your desire in her ear. And as a rule, 2+2 will always equal 4.

5. Love her unconditionally

“Love is an ice cream sundae, with all the marvelous coverings. Sex is the cherry on top,” said the popular actor Jimmy Dean. Making love is a beautiful thing and it’s a symbol of your feelings for each other. For a true lover, making love is a gift by his lover and she too enjoys it thoroughly. Make your girl feel the intensity of your love both inside and outside of the bedroom. Every night she will be in your arms, that’s heaven for her. So, be a genuine boyfriend or husband. There are men who love women just for the physical aspect! No woman can forgive such greedy boyfriends/husbands. Physical intimacy is a symbol of love, it is not love!

4. Charm your way through the ladies

Charm your way through the ladies! Yes, if you have a charming and daring attitude, you’ll be a very good ladies’ man. You might not have tried it, but you’ll be great at it! If the both of you are working in the same place, you won’t need to try hard to build a great image in the eyes of women. Given your charming demeanour and sense of humour, you can have any brooding woman laughing instantly. In every workplace, there will be a man who is the secret crush of the majority of women. They long for his friendship, in fact, most of them are dreaming of becoming his girlfriend. Be that ‘dream hero’! Demonstrate your confidence and be passionate about your life.

3. In bed, do as you would have her do unto you

Women have certain thoughts about love making. They want their partner to do ‘particular’ things in bed. But unfortunately, it’s always men who dominate in bed. In fact, men rarely think whether their partner is satisfied or not. You must stand out of the crowd! Never dominate her, learn that it is about mutual pleasure between you two. When the both of you are enjoying freaky time, understand what she is looking for and act accordingly. If her first experience turns out to be memorable, she will never hesitate to have you again in her bedroom. If you show your greedy side, she may not come to you ever. So, here ‘The first impression is the best impression’ rule is applicable.

2. Alleviate her fears

Okay, you tried all the thirteen ideas that are mentioned above but the result is nil? There is a hidden reason for her fear about becoming intimate. It may be due to some traumatic experience in her childhood or the fear of pain during her first time with you. There are other causes like inadequate stimulation, lack of orgasm or weakness etc. For some women love making is an awkward thing and they believe in the myths associated with it. What is stopping your girl from enjoying herself in the bedroom? Finding out the answer is your task. As her beloved man, you must help her out of her fears so that she can start enjoying a healthy sex life. 

1. Be Open And Honest With Her

She is your girlfriend who knows you better than anyone else. Open your mind and confess your desire. It will be wrong if you force her into it. ‘Sex is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other,” said Marquis de Sade, a French novelist. Being intimate is not a sin, but an important part of everyone’s love life. Asking your partner for sex is totally ethical and it will also sound genuine to her. Either she will reject your idea with a valid reason or the both of you will end up having some good time in each other’s arms.

Sources: The Modern Man, Ask Men, METRO